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And boy oh boy are there a lot of different types of external vibes. "Whether you’re thrusting into someone else, into your own hand, or just wearing it around, you don’t want the dildo to be wiggling around," she explains. A prostate massager is a vibrating toy that goes up the anus to stimulate the prostate. "This can be thought of as the male equivalent to G-spot stimulators," Fleming says.

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